If you want to know what sexual health means and how it could cause problems in your marriage, then you should continue to read the article. Also, if you have sexual health problem and you want a way out of it, you need to read on too. The article will look at the meaning of sexual health, the problem it could cause in a marriage, what type of exercise, and how such an exercise could help to improve your sexual health. After reading this article, you will be able to know whether you are sexually fit for some rounds of sex with your wife/spouse.
Women know and understand all too well how their sense of physical well-being influences their level of sexual desire. For this reason, if you ask a woman if she is fit for sex, she will tell you straight away. For men, however, much of this is unknown to them; it is a virgin territory. Today, men worry about their weight and fitness. If you relate this to sexual activities, then, their focus on weight and body fitness could be said to be superficial. Men’s understanding of sexual health is how well they can get it up (or how fast), keep it up, and get it off, even if it requires a little porn or a pill to make all these happen. Yes, we have sex with our Penises. Sexual health is being more attuned to ones entire body, head to head and nape to toe i.e., having sex with our whole bodies and minds. It is to have truly embodied and ultimately out-of-body sex.
Sex is the second causes of problems in the home and divorces (comes after financial problem). A husband that is unfit for sex or sexual activities is no good to his wife. Such a man cannot give his wife genuine orgasm. What we have most times are wives faking orgasms to make their husband have a feeling that they have performed very well in bed. This would eventually lead to a situation where the wife just lies down for her to get it in and out of her in the shortest time. The husband enjoys it and the wife, doesn’t get any amusement and joy from sex with her husband. The two are just not connected in body. Soon, the non-connectivity will spread to other aspects of their home with the consequence being loneliness and eventually divorce. In reality, our sex lives are anything but easy; they’re rife with subtext, miscommunication, and ambiguity, as well as unspoken wants and guilty desires.
Exercise can be used to improve sexual health. Some types of exercises have found to improve blood inflow into the arteries which is essential in sexual arousal. Regular aerobic workout keep the blood flowing and the arteries producing nitric oxide. Now, nitric oxide, this substance is the life blood (literally speaking) of the male erection and is essential to sexual arousal. If you have not notice, you sometimes feel horniest post-exercise. Also, feel-good endorphins that contribute to sexual arousal are released. Exercise also plays a major role in generating positive self-esteem, perhaps the most powerful sexual enhancer. You wouldn’t believe how many men suffer from poor body image. And as women know all too well, low self-esteem dampens sexual desire.
On a personal note, I was way over my ideal weight about three years ago, and I was basically stuck in a low-level sex rut. I rarely exercised. Not only did I not have the energy for sex, but also I just felt unattractive. The complaints started from my wife, then my friends and my relatives. It affected my marriage, my wife felt disgusted at my appearance and loss of self-esteem. I made a decision to get into better shape, so I went on an exercise and fitness program. Not only did I lose the weight fairly quickly, but also the smallest improvement along the way boosted my self-esteem and libido tenfold. I feel at my most alive when I’m pushing myself physically during a workout, and, consequently, I feel at my most alive sexually when I make love right after a workout. If you are low on sexual health, you need a whole lot of exercises.
Sex is the second in the causes of divorce/marriage failure (comes after finance). Most men cannot satisfy their wife because they are not sexually fit. Knowing the importance of sex in marriage, men must learn to improve their sexual health fitness for the happiness of their wife and success of their marriage.